Cradle of Filth?, Immortal?

I like all kinds of music, from Bob Dylan and Joni Mitchell, To Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder, Eminem, well just anything, muddy waters, miles davis, greenday, lady gaga, metallica, Dierks Bentley, Lynyrd Skynyrd, music is my thing, i like all genres and have liked metalcore for awhile, and am now moving on and am interested in some black metal bands but only plan on listening to a little bit of the genre, i have liked some music i have heard by cradle of filth and immortal, but am weary of their ideas on things, I have watched some interviews and the members seem like nice people but some of the things they have done and said, and their music are out of line and kind of disturbing, i dont like the idea of the scene they are in and messages they sometimes convey that are ociated with satanism, but enjoy the music for its sound, i dont want any answers like ignore the lyrics because thats impossible and ignorant to their music, but how do you suggest i be able to listen to them and not be offended or feel strange listening.